Wedding Traditions | The Bouquet
Four Ways to Personalize Your Bouquet
Like many wedding traditions, the wedding bouquet is a time-honored custom with roots that date back to ancient times.
The Greeks and Romans held a deep fear of malevolent spirits, especially when it came to the sacred union of marriage. To protect themselves from these potential threats, they adorned themselves with herbs, spices, and flowers. These natural elements were believed to have the power to ward off evil and bring good luck. Interestingly, these same flowers also came to symbolize fertility and prosperity, making them an essential part of weddings. From garlands to head wreaths, superstitious couples surrounded themselves with these natural elements. Fragrant herbs and spices were also thrown as a symbol of celebration and good fortune. And, for many cultures, flowers and herbs were used to ensure that the bride remained sweetly scented throughout her special day.
Throughout the centuries, the bouquet has been a beloved wedding tradition. It was believed that the bride carried with her the best of luck, and bystanders would reach out and take a few of her flowers to increase their own fortunes. Today, the bride throws her bouquet to a group of single guests, and whoever catches it is believed to be blessed with good fortune in love. It is a joyous moment that never fails to bring a smile to everyone's face.
A Symbol of Love
In the Elizabethan and Victorian periods, flowers were used to convey secret messages to others. Incorporating a "hidden" message in your floral design can add a touch of excitement and intrigue. Here are some of the more prevalent flower meanings that are still in use today.
Roses - symbolize love, passion, and beauty. They come in a variety of colors, with each color having its own meaning. Red roses are associated with romantic love, while pink roses represent admiration and gratitude. White roses symbolize purity and innocence, making them popular for weddings.
Peonies - symbolize romance, prosperity, and good fortune. They are often used in bridal bouquets and centerpieces due to their large, showy blooms.
Lilies - symbolize purity, elegance, and beauty. They are often used in weddings as they are associated with the idea of a new beginning.
Calla lilies - symbolize beauty, elegance, and purity. They have a sleek, modern look and are often used in minimalist wedding decor.
Hydrangeas - symbolize gratitude, grace, and heartfelt emotions. They are often used in weddings as they are believed to bring good luck and fortune.
Tulips - symbolize perfect love and happy years. They come in a variety of colors and each color has a different meaning, such as red for love and passion, yellow for cheerfulness, and white for purity and forgiveness. They are often a popular choice for spring weddings.
Orchids - symbolize beauty, luxury, and strength. They are often used in tropical and exotic themed weddings.
Daisies - symbolize innocence, purity, and new beginnings. They are often used in rustic and outdoor weddings.
Remember, the meanings of flowers can vary by culture and region, so it's important to do your research before choosing flowers for your wedding.
Modern Day Bouquet - How to Make it Your Own
Like most traditions, the bridal bouquet has evolved over the years. In addition to beautiful flowers, there are plenty of unique ways to personalize your bouquet.
Here are a few of our favorites:
1. Incorporate a Piece of Family History
Adorn the bouquet with lockets holding pictures of cherished ones who have passed away, or encircle the stems with delicate lace sourced from your grandmother's wedding dress. This beautiful tribute adds a sentimental touch to your bouquet, honoring the memory of loved ones who cannot be there to celebrate with you on your special day.
2. Add a Touch of Personality or Special Meaning
Embrace your unique love story by incorporating personal touches into your bouquet. If your partner is a talented chef, add some stems of rosemary or other herbs. Or, in addition to your favorite flowers, honor the legacy of the women who came before you by including the favorites of your grandmother and mother. Let your bouquet tell your story, one bloom at a time.
3. Environmentally Friendly Focus
Show your love not just for each other, but also for the planet and your local community by choosing locally sourced and seasonal flowers. By supporting local businesses and organic farms, you can embrace a more sustainable and earth-friendly approach to your wedding while also enjoying the beauty of naturally grown blooms that preserve biodiversity.
4. Non-Floral Approach
Wooden and dried flowers, broaches, feathers, and fabric bouquets are a new twist on the tradition that we are seeing more and more. They can also be enjoyed and easily displayed for years to come.
Let your bouquet be a reflection of your unique personality and style by putting your own spin on tradition. Whether you choose to follow the conventional path or pave a new way, make sure it holds significance and sentimental value to you. After all, your wedding day is a celebration of your love story, and your bouquet should be a beautiful reminder of your special bond.
